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Formation

Your victim status is not your identity

What happened to you is real. Making it your name is a choice.

Formation

Honor the wound. Then stop building a personality around it. People who stay 'former' and 'recovering' forever never become present-tense operators. The past gets a chapter. It does not get the byline.

Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal.

Philippians 3:13–14

The move: Catch one sentence today that starts with 'I am the kind of person who… because of…' Rewrite it as an action, not an identity.