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My marriage is running on fumes

Roommate energy. Scorekeeping. Sex or conversation as a negotiation. You are sharper at work than at home.

Diagnosis

Marriage dies of leftover attention. You gave the best hours to the job and brought the scraps home, then wondered why the house went quiet. Love is a standard you keep when you are tired, not a feeling you wait to return.

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The standard: Your spouse gets a first-string version of you, not the leftover.

Fired = did it · Misfire = didn't

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

Ephesians 5:25