Diagnosis
Love that removes all friction produces fragility. Your job is not to build a padded room. It is to build a human who can carry weight and tell the truth.
Protocol
- 1Stop one rescue this week that they could have handled.
- 2Give an age-appropriate hard thing with a real standard and a real finish line.
- 3Model the standard. They will not become what you post. They will become what you practice.
The standard: Fewer rescues. More supervised difficulty. Your example louder than your lecture.
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace.”
Hebrews 12:11